The purpose of this study was to develop and evaluate a self-report measure of fathers' ability to acknowledge responsibility and appreciate the impact of unhealthy parenting on their children. The measure developed consisted of four scenarios depicting emotional distress, interparental conflict, intimidation, and emotional neglect. Using open-ended questions and rating scales, 35 fathers from low and high-stress father-child dyads indicated the extent to which they appreciated negative impact of fathering behaviours depicted in the scenarios and whether they attributed unhealthy parenting to themselves, their child, spouse, or situation. Men's ratings on this measure were compared to their scores on the Child Abuse Potential Inventory, the Parenting Stress Index, and the Abuse Risk Interview. Item analysis revealed good psychometric properties and some convergent validity with interview ratings. Interview ratings, but not self-report, were related to measures of risk for abuse. Implications for assessment of fathers at risk for abusive behaviour are discussed.