An edition of Data, a love story (2013)

Data, a love story

how I gamed online dating to meet my match

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An edition of Data, a love story (2013)

Data, a love story

how I gamed online dating to meet my match

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This book is a lively, thought-provoking memoir about how one woman "gamed" online dating sites like JDate, OKCupid and eHarmony -- and met her eventual husband. After yet another online dating disaster, Amy Webb was about to cancel her JDate membership when an epiphany struck: It wasn't that her standards were too high, as women are often told, but that she wasn't evaluating the right data in suitors' profiles. That night Webb, an award-winning journalist and digital-strategy expert, made a detailed, exhaustive list of what she did and didn't want in a mate. The result: seventy-two requirements ranging from the expected (smart, funny) to the super-specific (likes selected musicals: Chess, Les Miserables. Not Cats. Must not like Cats!). Next she turned to her own profile. In order to craft the most compelling online presentation, she needed to assess the competition -- so she signed on to JDate again, this time as a man. Using the same gift for data strategy that made her company the top in its field, she found the key words that were digital man magnets, analyzed photos, and studied the timing of women's messages, then adjusted her (female) profile to make the most of that intel. Then began the deluge -- dozens of men wanted to meet her, men who actually met her requirements. Among them: her future husband, now the father of her child. Forty million people date online each year. Most don't find true love. Thanks to Data, a Love Story, their odds just got a whole lot better. - Publisher.

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Dutton
Language
English

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Table of Contents

Introduction : This isn't a typical introduction. Start here first!
Missed connections : he quoted me to me
Single in the city : learning how to date--and to hate dating--again
Signing on : you are a woman seeking man
The dates : two hundred dollars for dinner and a roadside flare of weed
Bad algorithms : online dating sites are broken
The list : must not like Cats!
The mirror of truth : l am not Cameron Diaz
Fuck you, impostors! : you are a man seeking woman
Gaming the system : in which I outsmarted the algorithms
You're a 5-Apatow, 5-Seinfeld : what the popular girls know
The super profile : fun, outgoing breasts!
Finding Bobo : my last first date
The train home : subtlety wasn't my strong suit
Epilogue : What happened next, and the other side of my story
Notes : Answers to everything you were wondering (and a diatribe on the musical genius of George Michael)
Appendix : More data

Edition Notes

Includes bibliographical references.

Published in
New York

Classifications

Dewey Decimal Class
306.730285
Library of Congress
HQ801.82 .W43 2013, HQ801.82 .W43 2013eb, HQ801.82.W43 2013

The Physical Object

Format
Hardcover
Pagination
viii, 296 p.
Dimensions
24 x x centimeters

Edition Identifiers

Open Library
OL25404691M
ISBN 10
0525953809
ISBN 13
9780525953807
LCCN
2012029016

Work Identifiers

Work ID
OL16769446W

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