She Comes First

the thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman

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She Comes First

the thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman

1st Harper paperback
  • 3.86 ·
  • 14 Ratings
  • 382 Want to read
  • 17 Currently reading
  • 21 Have read

As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay -- simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual.She Comes First exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how."

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English

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2004, ReganBooks
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She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
May 25, 2004, Collins
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Table of Contents

Introduction : Confessions of a premature ejaculator
Part one : The elements of sexual style.
She comes first : the courtesy that counts
Her clitoris : the little engine that could
Think outside her box
The female orgasm : keep it simple
The tongue is mightier than the sword
Her inner goddess
Avoid Freud
What's in a name?
Now you see it : female sexual anatomy, part 1
Now you don't : female sexual anatomy, part 2
Avoid G-spotty logic
When raindrops keep falling on your head : female ejaculation
How wet is wet?
Aristotle and the poetics of arousal
A synopsis of female sexual response
Scent and sensibility
We've come a long way
Eat right
The cunnilinguist manifesto
Part two : Rules of usage.
A note on the play process
Foreplay : a lexicon of relevant terms
Introducing coreplay
Form follows function : getting into position
A quick refresher of the top ten hot spots in the clitoral network
Grand openings : the first kiss
Establishing rhythm
Developing tension, part 1
Time flies
Developing tension, part 2
Escalating the action, part 1
Two's company
An interlude
Escalating the action, part 2
A stitch in time
Preorgasm, part 1
Preorgasm, part 2
Posterior pizzazz
Preorgasm, part 3
A note for those stuck without an ending
The female orgasm : expanding your vocabulary
Moreplay : she comes again (and again)
Seamless transitions
Achieving simultaneity
Don't forget your epilogue
Part three : Putting it all together.
The substance of style
Routines : a cheat sheet
Routines : beginner to advanced
Conclusion
Appendices.
Manual stimulation during foreplay
Some pointers on the use of restraint
Modifications of the standard position
The protected kiss, part 1
The protected kiss, part 2
The scarlet kiss
The virgin kiss, his first time
The virgin kiss, her first time
The pregnant kiss
Useful toys
Routine template

Edition Notes

"A hardcover edition of this book was published in 2004 by ReganBooks, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers. First Harper paperback published 2010." - T.p. verso.

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Copyright Date
2004

Contributors

Illustrator
Naomi Pitcairn

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Format
Paperback
Pagination
x, 219 p.
Dimensions
21 x x centimeters

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OL25423305M
ISBN 10
0060538260
ISBN 13
9780060538262

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