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008 930514s1993 nyu b 001 0 eng
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035 $a(CSdNU)u47360-01national_inst
035 $a(OCoLC)28212731
035 $a(Sirsi) 01-AAF-0832
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049 $aCNUM
050 00 $aRC488.5$b.W549 1993
100 1 $aWile, Daniel B.
245 10 $aAfter the fight :$ba night in the life of a couple /$cDaniel B. Wile.
260 $aNew York :$bGuilford Press,$cc1993.
300 $ax, 326 p. ;$c24 cm.
504 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. 319-320) and index.
505 0 $aThe ongoing conversation we have with ourselves -- Using our relationship to figure out what we feel -- Self-blame -- Self-justification: fighting off self-blame -- The therapist's platform -- The client's platform -- The value of the platform -- Blaming: if you can't join them, beat them -- Defensiveness: a multiplicity of defensive responses -- The fight -- Five levels of attack -- What fighting is -- Dealing with couple fighting by helping partners make their points -- The shifting in and out of an adversarial state between client and therapist -- Monitoring the shifting in and out of an adversarial state between client and therapist -- First attempts at a recovery conversation -- The "admitting-admitting" couple state -- The "collaborating-collaborating" couple state -- A recovery conversation in its full sense -- Leading-edge feelings -- Life as the continual generation of symptoms -- Relationships as solutions that create new problems -- Therapy: helping clients get across what they need to -- The impossibility of obeying the rules of good communication -- Primary, secondary, and rejected pictures -- The four ego-analytic pictures -- What happens to Marie, Paul, and the skeptic?
650 0 $aMarital psychotherapy$xCase studies.
650 0 $aCommunication in marriage$xCase studies.
948 $a10/13/1999$b10/13/1999
999 $aRC 488.5 W549 1993$wLC$c1$i31786100702676$d5/13/2004$f5/13/2004$g1 $lCIRCSTACKS$mNULS$n1$rY$sY$tBOOK$u11/28/1995$o.STAFF. Pieces: 00001