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001 2008044055
003 DLC
005 20100320092204.0
008 081022s2009 enk 001 0 eng
010 $a 2008044055
020 $a9780195328844 (pbk. : alk. paper)
020 $a0195328841 (pbk. : alk. paper)
035 $a(OCoLC)ocn255902709
040 $aDLC$cDLC$dBTCTA$dYDXCP$dC#P$dBWX$dCDX$dDNJ$dVP@$dDLC
050 00 $aBF723.G75$bS55 2009
082 00 $a155.9/37083$222
100 1 $aSilverman, Phyllis R.
245 12 $aA parent's guide to raising grieving children :$brebuilding your family after the death of a loved one /$cPhyllis R. Silverman, Madelyn Kelly.
260 $aOxford ;$aNew York :$bOxford University Press,$c2009.
300 $axi, 256 p. ;$c24 cm.
500 $aIncludes index.
505 0 $aRoad map for a long journey. You don't have to do this alone ; Why we wrote this book ; How to read this book ; Some words of advice -- What death means to children. Age matters ; Preschool-age children : a limited concept of death ; Elementary school-age children : a growing understanding of death ; The teenage years : a fuller comprehension -- Someone I love is dying. Getting bad news ; How to get help ; My spouse is dying : anticipating living as a single parent ; My child is dying : anticipating an altered family -- Someone I love has died. The finality of death : the door is closed ; How children react ; Staggering through ; Making decisions ; Rites and rituals -- After a parent's death : a world upside down. Losing your past, present, and future ; What your children have lost ; Different ways of showing grief ; Lives reexamined ; Redesigning the role of parent ; Going back to school ; Felings and what to do with them ; Falling apart, and coming together ; Be patient with yourself and with your children -- After a child's death : a family disrupted. The parent's view : coping with your own loss ; Two parents, and at least two ways of grieving ; Other people do not always help ; Parenting your other children ; The child's view : what it means to lose a sibling ; Friends and bullies ; Collapse of their world : a lost way of life ; The lost world ; A new outlook, for you and your children -- After a friend's death : invisible mourners. Death and funerals ; Trying to make sense of it all ; Constructing a relationship with the person who died -- Help of all kinds. The early period after the death ; Finding help at school ; Help with financial and legal issues ; Tme moves forward, but help is still needed ; Individual counseling for children and adults ; Bereavement groups for children and adults ; Not all help is helpful ; A reordered universe -- Continuing bonds. What happens after death : faith, dreams, visions, and visits ; Connections over time -- Looking back, looking ahead. The new world ; Dating and remarriage ; The child's path.
650 0 $aGrief in children.
650 0 $aBereavement in children.
650 0 $aParenting.
650 0 $aChild rearing.
650 12 $aAttitude to Death$vPopular Works.
650 12 $aGrief$vPopular Works.
650 12 $aBereavement$vPopular Works.
650 22 $aDeath$vPopular Works.
650 22 $aChild.
650 22 $aAdolescent.
650 22 $aParenting$vPopular Works.
700 1 $aKelly, Madelyn.