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100 1 $aHorchler, Joani Nelson,$d1956-
245 10 $aSIDS & infant death survival guide :$binformation & comfort for grieving family & friends & professionals who seek to help them /$cJoani Nelson Horchler & Robin Rice ; foreword by Lloyd Bridges ; introduction by Thomas G. Keens.
246 3 $aSIDS and infant death survival guide
250 $aRev. & updated.
260 $aCheverly, Md. :$bSIDS Educational Services,$c2003.
300 $axxxvi, 320 pages :$billustrations ;$c22 cm
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500 $a"Formerly The SIDS survival guide."
504 $aIncludes bibliographical references (pages 314-318).
505 0 $a1. What everyone should know about SIDS and infant death -- In memory of Samuel Yves Lyman Laigle / Sheri Laigle -- Defining SIDS -- What SIDS is and what SIDS in not / National SIDS Resource Center -- An expert's perspective on SIDS and other infant deaths / Rachel Y. Moon -- Consider the numbers / Robin Rice -- SIDS then and now : a personal and political history / Carrie Griffin Sheehan -- 2. The nightmare begins -- A mental replay of Thursday, March 21, 1991 / Michelle Morgan Spady -- The day begins / Janice John Roper -- On that DREADFUL day ... / Candace N. Herkins-Jones -- Baby Ben / Lynne S.H. Javier (condensed by Jean K. Hulse-Hayman) -- Empty arms / Stacy Parks -- Untitled / Abraham Lincoln -- The sitting time / Joe Digman -- 3. "Coulda, woulda, shoulda" : dealing with guilt and anger -- Grief's healing rage / Nancy Purcell -- Sharing of tragedy lessens the pain / Kelley Trost -- To the man upstairs / Joani Nelson Horchler -- How can therapy help with guilt? / Patricia W. Dietz -- The women in my family / Margaret Polizos -- Grasping at straws to blame ourselves / Joani Nelson Horchler -- All that is left / Janice John Roper -- 4. "Why my baby? Why me?" -- Footprints / Anonymous -- One point of view / Jab Lamb -- "Why? Why me?" / Richard A. Watson -- A Jewish perspective on "Why?" / Marjorie Romanoff -- A grandmother asks, "Why?" / Millie Lutz -- When you don't believe in a god / Ned Balzer -- How faith helps us / Jeannie Nelson -- For anyone who has lost a child / Margaret Lee Dove-Hedges -- SIDS / De sire e Spencer Stamps -- 5. Fathers : the "second-class" grievers -- The unique burden of fathers / Bob Shaw -- The missing person : an interview with Pete Petit of Healthdyne -- 89 days of sunshine / Jonathon L. Andell -- An awesome dream / Chuck Dohrman -- My would-be perfect family / Robert Lopez -- Surviving a bereaved wife / Gabriel F. Horchler -- Always in my heart / Marta Brown.
505 0 $a6. Children grieving children -- Amy, Amy / Michael Purcell -- Missing someone I never knew / Lindsey Hosford -- A spring death / Ilona Horchler -- Sister / Jon Mihalko -- He should have been my best man : an interview with Curtis Schweitzer -- Helping siblings cope with death / Kee Schuth Marshall -- Bless his soul / Jennifer Wingfield -- Sadness in May / Gabrielle Christine Horchler -- How we helped our children ... and how they helped us / Joani Nelson Horchler -- What Mister Rogers has to say : an interview with Hedda Sharapan -- For my baby sister Stephanie / Tony Paik -- 7. Grandparents : a grief doubled -- Oh, for the purely material losses / Dora Nagy Horchler -- AGAST : an alliance for grandparents / Sandra R. Graben -- The double hurt of grandparents / Beverly Powell -- A letter from grandma Nelson / Doris Guhin Nelson -- Sweet memories of Jacob Barlowe Kruse / Christine Fackler Salemi -- Forgive me, my daughter / Jean Andre -- 8. When a baby dies at the child-care provider's -- SIDS in child care / Rachel Y. Moon -- As child-care providers, it's our baby, too / Donna Shelton -- A parent's perspective / Jennifer McBride -- Only the sitter? / Donna Allen -- 9. How to be a friend to a SIDS or infant death survivor -- The dos and don'ts of helping a survivor / Joani Nelson Horchler -- A friend's memory of William Kendal Herrera / Renee Scolaro -- Letter from a friend / Cheryl Lambson -- Untitled / Oscar Wilde -- A comforting note from friends in England / Philip, Diana, and Patrick Beddows -- Befriending the grieving / Robin Rice -- Just say, "I'm sorry" / Gail Fasolo -- 10. Planning a funeral and the role of the clergy -- A Christian celebration of Christian / Father John J. Hurley, Jr. -- William David Waugh / Fern Stanley -- A funeral director's personal experience with SIDS / Sondra L. Held -- Planning a special funeral / Joani Nelson Horchler -- Eulogy for Margaret Hood Schuth : a gift from her mother / Kee Schuth Marshall -- Obituary of Christian Horchler / Josette Shiner -- Selecting the right funeral home / Ray Visotski.
505 0 $a11. Learning to live again -- "How many children do you have?" / Joani Nelson Horchler -- The glass half full / William C. Ermatinger -- Going out into the world again / Carla Hosford -- How I survived my baby's death / Joani Nelson Horchler -- A letter to Michael / Liz Waller -- A prayer for spring / Janis Heil -- Moving beyond the sudden death of a child / Regina A. Rochford -- 12. Happy Birthday? Merry Christmas? -- Missing Danny at the beach / Janice John Roper -- Surviving anniversaries and holidays / Shelley A. LeDroux -- Kathy's day / William C. Ermatinger -- Making the milestones when you have lost your only child / Michelle Morgan Spady -- Portraits for Easter / Cheryl Radich -- 13. Peer contact and professional help -- A peer contact answers the question : "are you still doing that?" / Debbie Gemmill -- Untitled / H. Thurman -- A SIDS parent counseling SIDS survivors / Carla Hosford -- Finding friends among other SIDS families / Nancy Maruyama -- Home visits by public health nurses / Linda Esposito -- Hitting it off with a counselor : an interview with Mike Hitch -- My lifeline : an interview with Gwen Robinson -- 14. Emergency medical responders and the authorities -- Dos and don'ts for emergency responders / Kerry Day -- When emergency responders lose their own baby / Michelle Grogan -- SIDS and the homicide detective : an interview with J. Richard Salen and Steve Kerpelman -- How NOT to treat a SIDS survivor / Darlene Buth -- The "suspicious" loss of twins / Joani Nelson Horchler -- The role of the medical examiner / John E. Smialek -- 15. A subsequent baby and the question of home monitoring -- Thoughts on a subsequent baby / Sheri Laigle -- Another baby with dark brown eyes / Kandace DeCaro -- Celine / Marie-Pascale Hill -- Room for more angels / Deneena Herrera -- The haunting memory of SIDS / Jennifer Wilkinson -- Forever in our hearts / Nick Missos -- A clinical view of monitoring / Robert Meny -- Tips for home monitoring : an interview with Barb Follett of Kirson Medical Equipment Company -- When you've lost your only boy or girl / Joani Nelson Horchler.
505 0 $a16. Guilt and risk reduction -- Against all odds / Chris Brink -- For a subsequent child : reducing the risks as much as possible / John L. Carroll, Ellen S. Siska -- 17. Dreams and premonitions -- The effect of premonitions of SIDS on grieving and healing / Patricia Christenson [and others] -- 18. Moving forward -- Life after SIDS : what is possible? / M. John O'Brien -- Twenty-four years later : the Arlette Schweitzer story / Joani Nelson Horchler -- How therapy can help us move forward / Patricia W. Dietz -- Letter to Justin / Norine Blanton -- Letter to Michelle Elizabeth Dickerson / Denise Michelle Dickerson -- Letter from my child / Dolly Guess-Colvin -- Thirty years later, a look at Peter's gifts : an interview with George Keeler and Kay Keeler -- Moving forward by raising money to fight SIDS : an interview with Susan Hollander of the CJ Foundation for SIDS -- Do not stand at my grave and weep / Author unknown -- The sailing ship / Author unknown -- Rise up slowly, angel / Diane Robertson -- From Juliet's speech / William Shakespeare -- 19. More stories and poems -- Eleven days / Peggy Biebel -- Trevor's secret / Lori R. Dickey -- Thank you to our son / Gerardo Orozco -- A face in the clouds / Leyna Rose Figliozzi -- A note from Colby / Cathey King -- Appendix. National and international organizations that provide information, counseling, research data, and grants on SIDS and related topics.
650 0 $aSudden infant death syndrome$xPsychological aspects.
650 0 $aBereavement$xPsychological aspects.
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650 7 $aSudden infant death syndrome$xPsychological aspects.$2fast$0(OCoLC)fst01137132
700 1 $aMorris, Robin Rice,$d1962-
700 1 $aHorchler, Joani Nelson,$d1956-$tSIDS survival guide.
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