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100 1 $aRaffel, Lee.
245 10 $aShould I stay or go? :$bhow controlled separation (CS) can save your marriage /$cLee Raffel ; foreword by Jean Houston.
260 $aLincolnwood, Ill :$bContemporary Books,$c℗♭1999.
300 $axii, 292 pages ;$c24 cm
336 $atext$btxt$2rdacontent
337 $aunmediated$bn$2rdamedia
338 $avolume$bnc$2rdacarrier
504 $aIncludes bibliographical references (pages 279-285) and index.
505 00 $tForeword /$rJean Houston, Ph. D. --$tBreaking the Marital Impasse --$tCouples on the Cusp --$tYour Travel Guide to Becoming Advocates --$tControlled Separation: A Breakthrough Solution --$tNegotating a Controlled Separation Contract --$tThe CS Contract: Tale of a Tenacious Couple --$tMy Marriage Is Making Me Sick --$tThe Anatomy of Marital Separation --$tThe Trouble with Trial Separation --$tIn-House Separation: Upstairs/Downstairs Pals --$tRelationship Transformation --$tUsers, Abusers, Losers: Twisted Minds--Twisted Lives --$tBroken Hearts, Broken Children: A Call for Compassion --$tMoney Counts: Different Hats/Different Spats --$tSexual Excesses: Perverse Pairs --$tThe Identity Crisis: Discovery-Zone Mates --$tThe Well-Kept Secret: Partners in the Dark --$tCrippled by Rage and Remorse: Scarred Spouses --$tFrom Blame to Forgiving: How Do I Know I Love Thee? --$tActive Waiting: Hurry-Up and Slow-Down Partners --$tOperating Instructions --$tThe Good Divorce --$tThe Good Marriage.
520 $aUntil now, couples facing the dilemma of deciding whether or not to stay in an unhappy marriage had three options: individual or couples therapy, separation, or divorce. Should I Stay or Go? provides these couples with a fourth option--the Controlled Separation (CS). CS is a compassionate process that is designed to build respect and foster advocacy between spouses. The book explains the CS guidelines, including the 12 fundamental issues that must be resolved for a workable, orderly separation. It also contains sample contracts, along with helpful checklists and self-assessment tools.
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