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245 00 $aWhat my mother and I don't talk about :$bfifteen writers break the silence /$cedited by Michele Filgate.
246 30 $aFifteen writers break the silence
250 $aFirst Simon & Schuster hardcover edition.
264 1 $aNew York :$bSimon & Schuster,$c[2019]
264 4 $c℗♭2019
300 $axviii, 267 pages ;$c22 cm
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505 00 $tWhat my mother and I don't talk about /$rMichele Filgate --$tMy mother's (gate) keeper /$rCathi Hanauer --$tThesmophoria /$rMelissa Febos --$tXanadu /$rAlexander Chee --$t16 Minetta Lane /$rDylan Landis --$tFifteen /$rBernice L. McFadden --$tNothing left unsaid /$rJulianna Baggott --$tThe same story about my mom /$rLynn Steger Strong --$tWhile these things/Feel American to me /$rKiese Laymon --$tMother tongue /$rCarmen Maria Machado --$tAre you listening? /$rAndre Aciman --$tBrother, can you spare some change? /$rSari Botton --$tHer body/my body /$rNayomi Munaweera --$tAll about my mother /$rBrandon Taylor --$tI met fear on the hill /$rLeslie Jamison.
520 $a"From a critically acclaimed group of writers comes an essay collection about what they wish they could share with their mothers--the hilarious, the painful, the awkward, and the downright messy. Raw and poignant, this is an anthology that will resonate with anyone who's ever had a mother." -- Back cover.
520 $a"As an undergraduate, Michele Filgate started writing an essay about being abused by her stepfather. It took her more than a decade to realize what she was actually trying to write: how this affected her relationship with her mother. When it was finally published, the essay went viral, shared on social media by Anne Lamott, Rebecca Solnit, and many others. The outpouring of responses gave Filgate an idea, and the resulting anthology offers a candid look at our relationships with our mothers. While some of the writers in this book are estranged from their mothers, others are extremely close. Leslie Jamison writes about trying to discover who her seemingly perfect mother was before ever becoming a mom. In Cathi Hanauer's hilarious piece, she finally gets a chance to have a conversation with her mother that isn't interrupted by her domineering (but lovable) father. Andre Aciman writes about what it was like to have a deaf mother. Melissa Febos uses mythology as a lens to look at her close-knit relationship with her psychotherapist mother. And Julianna Baggott talks about having a mom who tells her everything. As Filgate writes, 'Our mothers are our first homes, and that's why we're always trying to return to them.' There's relief in breaking the silence. Acknowledging what we couldn't say for so long is one way to heal our relationships with others and, perhaps most important, with ourselves."--Dust jacket.
520 $aIn this candid look at our relationships with our mothers, fifteen authors write about subjects that they wish they had talked to their mothers about. While some of the writers in this book are estranged from their mothers, others are extremely close. Topics vary widely: from growing up with a deaf mother, to seeking a conversation that won't be interrupted, to relationships affected by the mother's abusive partner. At times humorous, at times tragic, the authors all seek to heal relationships with others and, perhaps most important, with themselves. -- adapted from jacket
546 $aText in English.
650 0 $aMother and child$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh85087517$0(uri) http://id.worldcat.org/fast/fst01026878
650 0 $aMothers$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh85087526$0(uri) http://id.worldcat.org/fast/fst01026940
650 0 $aParent and adult child.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh91000739$0(uri) http://id.worldcat.org/fast/fst01053304
650 7 $aFAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Parenting / Motherhood.$2bisacsh
650 7 $aFAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Parenting / Parent & Adult Child.$2bisacsh
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700 1 $aFilgate, Michele,$eeditor,$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n2018068226$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n2018068226
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700 1 $aChee, Alexander,$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n2001037216$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n2001037216
700 1 $aLandis, Dylan,$d1956-$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n90717376$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n90717376
700 1 $aMcFadden, Bernice L.,$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n99039772$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n99039772
700 1 $aBaggott, Julianna,$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n00026089$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n00026089
700 1 $aStrong, Lynn Steger,$d1983-$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n2016010073$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n2016010073
700 1 $aLaymon, Kiese,$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n2013019241$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n2013019241
700 1 $aMachado, Carmen Maria$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/no2016065494$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|no2016065494
700 1 $aAciman, Andre ,$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/no95007262$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|no95007262
700 1 $aBotton, Sari,$d1965-$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n2013027052$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n2013027052
700 1 $aMunaweera, Nayomi,$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n2012215736$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n2012215736
700 1 $aTaylor, Brandon,$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n81101794$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n81101794
700 1 $aJamison, Leslie,$d1983-$econtributor.$0(uri) http://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n2009031372$0(uri) http://viaf.org/viaf/sourceID/LC|n2009031372
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