How to have that difficult conversation you've been avoiding

with your spouse, your adult child, your boss, your coworker, your best friend, your parent, someone you're dating

1st ed.
  • 0 Ratings
  • 5 Want to read
  • 1 Currently reading
  • 0 Have read

My Reading Lists:

Create a new list

Check-In

×Close
Add an optional check-in date. Check-in dates are used to track yearly reading goals.
Today

  • 0 Ratings
  • 5 Want to read
  • 1 Currently reading
  • 0 Have read

Buy this book

Last edited by ImportBot
January 17, 2023 | History

How to have that difficult conversation you've been avoiding

with your spouse, your adult child, your boss, your coworker, your best friend, your parent, someone you're dating

1st ed.
  • 0 Ratings
  • 5 Want to read
  • 1 Currently reading
  • 0 Have read

A practical handbook on positive confrontation, now available in softcover with a discussion guide.

Successful people confront well. They know that setting healthy boundaries improves relationships and can solve important problems. They have discovered that uncomfortable situations can be avoided or resolved through direct conversation. But most of us don't know how to have difficult conversations, and see confrontation as scary or adversarial. Authors Henry Cloud and John Townsend take the principles from their bestselling book, Boundaries, and apply them to a variety of the most common difficult situations and relationships in order to:
Show how healthy confrontation can improve relationships
Present the essentials of a good boundary-setting conversation
Provide tips on preparing for the conversation
Show how to tell people what you want, stop bad behavior, and deal with counterattack
Give actual examples of conversations to have with your spouse, your date, your kids, your coworker, your parents, and more!

Publish Date
Publisher
Zondervan
Language
English

Buy this book

Previews available in: English

Book Details


Table of Contents

Part I. Why you need to have that difficult conversation
The conversation can change your life
The benefits of a good conversation
Part II. The essentials of a good conversation
Be emotionally present
Be clear about "you" and "I"
Clarify the problem
Balance grace and truth
Stay on task
Use the formula, when you do "a," I feel "b"
Affirm and validate
Apologize for your part in the problem
Avoid "shoulds"
Be an agent for change
Be specific
Differentiate between forgiving and trusting
Part III. Seeing how it's done
Telling people what you want
Making someone aware of something
Stopping a behavior
Dealing with counterattack and other problems
Part IV. Getting ready to have the conversation
Why you need to get ready
How to get ready
Part V. Having the conversation with people in your life
With your spouse
With someone you're dating
With your kids
With your parents
With your adult children
At work
With people in authority.

Edition Notes

Originally published: Boundaries face to face. Grand Rapids, Mich. : Zondervan, c2003. With discussion guide.

Published in
Grand Rapids, Mich

Classifications

Dewey Decimal Class
158.2
Library of Congress
BV4597.53.C58 C59 2006, BV4597.53.C58C59

The Physical Object

Pagination
p. cm.

ID Numbers

Open Library
OL3411698M
Internet Archive
howtohavethatdif0000clou
ISBN 10
0310267145
ISBN 13
9780310267140
LCCN
2005027779
Library Thing
320862
Goodreads
14017

Community Reviews (0)

Feedback?
No community reviews have been submitted for this work.

History

Download catalog record: RDF / JSON / OPDS | Wikipedia citation
January 17, 2023 Edited by ImportBot import existing book
February 22, 2021 Edited by ImportBot import existing book
December 11, 2020 Edited by MARC Bot import existing book
August 2, 2010 Edited by IdentifierBot added LibraryThing ID
April 1, 2008 Created by an anonymous user Imported from Scriblio MARC record.